Care for Parents
Many adults step into the role of caregiver for an aging parent without ever planning to. Studies show that nearly half of family caregivers feel the responsibility was placed on them by circumstance rather than choice. Often, expectations fall on the oldest child, the family member who lives closest, or the one with the strongest emotional connection to the parent.
While caregiving can be deeply meaningful, it can also be isolating and stressful — especially when siblings disagree or remain uninvolved. Tension tends to build when one person manages daily care while others weigh in from the sidelines. Open communication and clearly defined roles can help reduce resentment and protect family relationships.
Families function best when care responsibilities are shared according to each person’s strengths and availability. Regular communication and asking for support — whether from relatives or professionals — can ease stress and ensure that aging parents receive coordinated, compassionate care.
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Quick Tips: Reducing Caregiver Conflict
• Acknowledge unspoken expectations early
• Hold family meetings that include your parent whenever possible
• Match decision-making authority with hands-on caregiving
• Share responsibilities beyond daily care (finances, research, scheduling)
• Keep siblings informed through group emails or shared caregiving tools
• Recognize resentment as a sign that more support is needed
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Care for Parents 
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